"Can we talk?"

Now I know what your thinking... if you are anything like me, the questions "can we talk" sends shivers down my spine and makes me thing of impending doom! It makes me frantically recount everything that I did or said in the last, 24 hours, 24days, 24 months ect.... I know the "can we talk" question has this effect on many people.... So I figured Nate would be a little apprehensive when I asked him if we could talk.  Now thankfully my future husband is an amazing listener and it had nothing to do with our relationship, i just honestly wanted his advice on some issues i was having with school and not working.... I love the fact that I can ask him to talk and he doesn't object, or throw a fit, or say later, or that he doesn't want to. He listens to me, and my fears and excitements and lets me vent. Its healthy! I love him more and more every day and the fact that he fully understands where I'm coming from and doesn't judge me or my feelings makes me 110% sure that i will LOVE spending the rest of my life with him :)